May 21, 2013
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Where the inspirational figure is selected for us, and the gap between their life and ours is too great, the effect is not one of encouragement but of disillusionment - especially if their story is told in terms of personal qualities like bravery or persistence.

Knowing a famous person has the same impairment as you can be reassuring, but only in the vague way that hearing of a successful distant relative is reassuring.

Most of us will never scale Everest, compete for our country at sports or have a showbiz career. This doesn’t mean we’ve failed.

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For BBC’s Mental Health Awareness Week, Mark Brown questions the value of glorifying role models who share our own disabilities and pathologies.

A flipside of the same coin to consider is the perilous “tortured genius” myth of creativity, which implies that depression, addiction, and other mental health issues that plagued some successful creators were central to their genius. The human antidotes to this mythology are worthy role models.

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May 17, 2013
A few Friday tunes I love and hate to hear. One foot in front of the other, Jessica.
Ben Howard, Only Love
Bahamas, Lost in the Light
Bernhoft, C’mon Talk

A few Friday tunes I love and hate to hear. One foot in front of the other, Jessica.

Ben Howard, Only Love

Bahamas, Lost in the Light

Bernhoft, C’mon Talk

May 16, 2013

Wow, wow, wow. Archy Marshall, aka King Krule. He’s 19.

May 15, 2013

“Love her, love her, love her! If she favors you, love her. If she wounds you, love her. If she tears your heart to pieces - and as it gets older and stronger it will tear deeper - love her, love her, love her!”

- Charles Dickens, Great Expectations

May 13, 2013

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Now, listen to this.

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May 10, 2013
“They slipped briskly into an intimacy from which they never recovered.”
- f. scott fitzgerald

“They slipped briskly into an intimacy from which they never recovered.”

- f. scott fitzgerald

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May 9, 2013
For Fun: Lip Sync-Off with John Krasinski

“But I have a secret. You can build walls all the way to the sky and I will find away to fly above them. You can try to pin me down with a hundred thousand arms, but I will find a way to resist. And there are many of us out there, more than you think.”

May 5, 2013
“I heard it too. The sound of something important to you disappearing.”

“I heard it too. The sound of something important to you disappearing.”

May 3, 2013
And I think we could be friends.

She caught my eye

And I think I caught hers

I know I did, I’m just afraid to say it

She smiled slightly

Which surprised me

I wasn’t expecting it this morning

Not with the sunshine

And the suburbanites

And the type of people

Here at this type of place

You know these people

Baristas and google employees and old, beautiful jews

She was somewhere in the middle of all of those

Jewish maybe,

Her hair was dark and curly.

Looked freshly washed

Works in tech almost certainly, at a startup maybe

She helps bloggers do SEO or SEM or 

And we laugh about it at a very dark sushi bar

Every Wednesday night

Maybe she was a barista when she first arrived

You know, years ago – probably six – which means she is From Here now

Colorado is where her mother and father do well for themselves

They’ve made sure she does well for herself

But she’s made sure it feels like she’s done it

She tells me about the tough times when she first moved Out Here

And I am pleased at how my small fingers grip the bamboo chopsticks 

There’s a very haggard, soiled man underneath a layer of rags and bags

He is yelling at me now

No, now he is yelling at Marshall

To - Get Over Here Now

And help him move his chair

It has two wheels and two what-once-were tennis balls

The girl bounces from the café

I am quite surprised she did not bring her own cup

Paper means she doesn’t know better

Paper is what her mother drinks from

But you are From Here, dear

And her hair bounces down her back and the summer dress she can never wear is bright and cotton

May 2, 2013

“I beg young people to travel. If you don’t have a passport, get one. Take a summer, get a backpack and go to Delhi, go to Saigon, go to Bangkok, go to Kenya. Have your mind blown, eat interesting food, dig some interesting people, have an adventure, be careful. Come back and you’re going to see your country differently, you’re going to see your president differently, no matter who it is. Music, culture, food, water. Your showers will become shorter. You’re going to get a sense of what globalization looks like. It’s not what Tom Friedman writes about, I’m sorry. You’re going to see that global climate change is very real. And that for some people, their day consists of walking twelve miles for four buckets of water. And so there are lessons that you can’t get out of a book that are waiting for you at the other end of that flight. A lot of people — Americans and Europeans — come back and go, “Ohhhh.” And the lightbulb goes on.”

-Henry Rollins via TKOW

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